When it comes to dating personas, the remarkable thing about people is they tend to be quite unpredictable. Both men and women can act in totally different ways than they normally would when engaged in a romantic context.
If you really want to see if you’re compatible with a certain girl, it’s extremely helpful to do your best to engage her sexual side in addition to getting to know her through normal means. Aside from increasing your chances of getting laid, it also helps you see who you’re dealing with, sex-wise.
Some women are romantic lovebirds who like taking things slow and love to be cuddled more than anything. Others would much rather give in to their primal side and release their inner sex kitten right from the get-go.
Here is a list of approaches you can use to make a woman shed her social mask and reveal her oft-hidden dating persona:
1. Casually bring sex into the conversation
In general, girls love playful interaction. If you infuse your talks with genuinely funny sexual jokes and innuendos, women who are interested will respond accordingly. Remember, the idea is not to be rude, crass, or aggressive about it, but merely to bring about the topic of sex and show you’re confident and comfortable talking about it.
2. Don’t be afraid to let your eyes do the talking
Since women are generally better than men at picking up subtle cues, it’s a good idea to transmit your attraction to her non-verbally. The best way to do this is by using your eyes.
Simply focus on her face comfortably without staring too much. Use a triangle approach. Look first into one of her eyes, then shift your gaze to her other eye, and after that to her lips. Then repeat. This triangular method is an excellent way to let her know you’d like to kiss her.
3. You can get away with more by texting
Texting and its dirty cousin, sexting, have become the norm in today’s dating scene. And, while the approach is easy to get wrong, it’s not hard to see why it works so well. Delivering a funny pun through a text message eliminates the need for perfect phrasing and tone, and gives the whole interaction an air of sexy secrecy.
4. Gauge her interest by initiating light physical contact
From brushing her hair and placing it behind her ear to gently touching her waist when you pass by, sexual attraction is communicated best through direct contact. Of course, always be careful not to cross any lines. Read her signs and avoid touching her directly if her posture comes off as rigid or stand-offish.
As always, these techniques don’t guarantee she will instantly become attracted to you. What they will do, however, is allow you to glance beyond the surface and see what kind of sexual person she is.
If some of the more assertive tactics tend to push her away, don’t be afraid to tone it down a little, while still remaining honest about your intentions. You might be surprised at how differently women behave when their sexual interest is piqued.
Sexual fulfillment is crucial to the success of any relationship, so it’s definitely a good idea to get to know this side of her as early as possible.